Christian Wife Encouragement: Strength Through your Husband

Ever been in need of some Christian wife Encouragement? There have been many times I’ve felt like I’ve failed—as a wife, a mother, and a homemaker. I’ve let my family down. My attitude hasn’t always been right, and I’ve allowed my emotions to guide me in ways that led to selfishness. If you’ve ever felt this way too, please know you are not alone.

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When Attitude Becomes a Battle

I’ve always struggled with my attitude. I don’t know exactly where it started, but it’s been a stronghold in my life for years. Letting my feelings control me has made me quick to anger, slow to listen, and blind to the blessings around me.

But lately, God has been peeling back the layers of this issue. Through prayer, conviction, and even tragic stories of others who are suffering, He’s reminded me how precious this life is—even with its struggles.

Perspective from a Tragedy: The Josh Sullivan Story

Just the other day, I was listening to my favorite pastor, Cody Zorn. He mentioned a missionary in South Africa, Pastor Josh Sullivan, who was taken hostage while preaching. As of now, no one knows where he is. I cannot imagine what his wife and children are going through, but my heart breaks for them.

As I prayed for this family, I realized something deeply humbling: I’m here fretting over my attitude while this woman is praying for her husband’s life. It was a wake-up call.

Gratitude in the Middle of the Mess

That moment reminded me how good God has been to me. I’m not facing what that missionary family is facing. My struggles are real, but they’re also an opportunity for God to shape me into who He wants me to be. Even when I fail, His grace covers me.

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A Word to Fellow Wives and Homemakers

If you’re a wife, mom, or homemaker who’s struggling right now and needs that Christian wife encouragement, I want to share this simple truth: You don’t have to do this alone. God is with you. He wants to lead you, guide you, and fill in the gaps where you fall short.

I asked God this morning to control my words, thoughts, and actions. And while that doesn’t magically make me perfect, it gives me a starting place. A posture of surrender. With His help, I can walk in obedience, and so can you.

The Power of a Godly Husband

One thing God reminded me of recently is what a gift my husband is. He’s not perfect, and neither am I. But he loves the Lord and does his best to care for our family.

Over the years, I’ve realized that instead of running to other women for advice, God gave me someone right in front of me—my husband. He is my spiritual leader, and when I actually listen to him, so many of our struggles dissolve.

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Learning to Listen (Even When It’s Hard)

Let’s be honest—it’s not always easy to listen when we’re upset. I’ve had moments where being argumentative felt more natural than being humble. But time and again, I’ve seen that when I slow down and take my husband’s words to heart, God uses him to guide me.

If your husband loves the Lord, listen to him. Even during disagreements. Even when your pride gets in the way. He’s not just your spouse—he’s a blessing, a counselor, and a gift from God.

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Be Careful Who You Turn To

Many women, myself included, have turned to friends for advice during marriage struggles. But unless that friend is spiritually mature and grounded, these conversations can often turn into husband-bashing sessions that do more harm than good.

If you’re not blessed with a strong Christian husband yet, pray for God to send you an older, godly woman—one with gray hair and decades of marriage behind her. Wisdom is worth the wait.

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Let God Use You, Even in Your Brokenness

I see myself like a ragged glove—worn, flawed, and messy. But I’ve asked God to slip His perfect hand into my imperfect life and lead me wherever He wants me to go. Without Him, I can’t be the wife, mom, or homemaker I want to be.

But with Him? I have hope. And so do you.

Final Encouragement: Love and Listen

Love your husband. Be a blessing to him. Respect him, even when it’s hard. Take his words to heart and ask God to help you live them out.

God gave us a gift when He gave us our husbands—our own personal spiritual counselors. Let’s cherish that gift, not take it for granted.

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Closing Thoughts

If you’ve felt like you’re failing, I want you to know: God still has a plan for you. You are not alone. Keep pressing into Christ. Keep leaning into your marriage. Keep praying. He’s not finished with you yet.